"Love the One You're With" is a song by folk rock musician Stephen Stills. It was released as the lead single from his debut self-titled studio album in November 1970. The song, inspired by a remark Stills heard from musician Billy Preston, became his biggest hit single, peaking at No. 14 on the Billboard Hot 100 in early 1971.[1] David Crosby and Graham Nash, Stills' fellow members of Crosby, Stills & Nash, provide background vocals on the song. The song was also covered by a number of artists, notably the Isley Brothers, The Meters, Bucks Fizz, Luther Vandross and Richard Clapton.
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Single by Stephen Stills | |
from the album Stephen Stills | |
B-side | "To a Flame" |
Released | November 1970 |
Genre | Folk rock |
Songwriter(s) | Stephen Stills |
Producer(s) | Stephen Stills |
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Stills wrote the song after being inspired by the tag line — "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with" which was a frequent remark by musician Billy Preston. Stills explained in 1991: "This song has been very good to me. The title came from a party with Billy Preston. I asked him if I could pinch this line he had, and he said, 'Sure. ' So I took the phrase and wrote a song around it. It's a good times song, just a bit of fun. My favorite part is the steel drums. I played them before a little bit but I just kept diddling around till I found the right notes."[2]
Cash Box said that Stills' "unique melodic work, the harmonies and a booming rhythm track make this a bright attraction for top forty as well as FM playlists."[3]
Weekly charts
Chart (1970–71) | Peak position |
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Canada 100 (RPM) Top Singles[4] | 6 |
Canada RPM Adult Contemporary[5] | 17 |
Netherlands (Single Top 100)[6] | 9 |
Netherlands (Dutch Top 40)[7] | 18 |
UK Singles (OCC)[8] | 37 |
US Easy Listening (Billboard)[9] | 32 |
US Hot 100 (Billboard)[10] | 14 |
US Singles (Cash Box)[11] | 16 |
US Singles (Record World)[12] | 10 |
Australia (Kent Music Report)[13] | 29 |
Finland Singles Chart[14] | 28 |
Year-end charts
Chart (1971) | Rank |
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Canada Year End[15] | 85 |
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Single by the Isley Brothers | |
B-side | "He's Got Your Love" |
Released | 1971 |
Length | 3:27 |
Label | T-Neck |
Songwriter(s) | Stephen Stills |
Producer(s) | The Isley Brothers |
Several acts have since covered the song. The most notable cover came in 1971 from the Isley Brothers, whose unique gospel-driven cover of the song sent it to the charts again reaching number three R&B and number 18 pop, giving the group their fifth US top 40 pop single.[16] It also reached number 10 US Cash Box. On the Canadian charts, their version reached No. 41.[17]
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Single by Bucks Fizz | ||||
B-side | "Too Hard" | |||
Released | 20 August 1986 | |||
Label | Polydor | |||
Songwriter(s) | Stephen Stills | |||
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UK pop group Bucks Fizz covered the song as their eighteenth single in 1986. The single, released in August, was the follow-up to the group's comeback top ten hit "New Beginning (Mamba Seyra)" and was seen as a make or break release. Ultimately the song peaked at a low No.47 in the UK Singles Chart during a three-week run.[18] In a review, music magazine Number One said that the song lacked bass and sounded rather "tinny" but predicted that it would be a hit.[19] Member Mike Nolan puts the song's failure down to the decision to showcase other male member Bobby G as the lead singer. Their previous single had featured all the group equally and was a hit, while earlier flops had featured G on lead and this was a return to that format.[20] A promotional video for the song was filmed featuring the group performing the song in a blue-toned studio accompanied by backing musicians.[21] The single was released on 7" and 12" on Polydor Records with an extended mix on the latter, the B-side was a Bobby G composition, "Too Hard".[22] Also included on the 12" was an extended mix of earlier single "I Hear Talk". A second 12" single was released featuring a dance edit of "Love the One You're With", backed by another alternate mix of "I Hear Talk".[23]
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Single by Chantoozies | |
from the album Gild the Lily | |
Released | February 1991 |
Songwriter(s) | Stephen Stills |
Australian group, Chantoozies released a version in February 1991. The song was the second single from the group's second studio album Gild the Lily. The song peaked at number 21 on the Australian charts.[24]
Chart (1991) | Peak position |
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Australia (ARIA)[25] | 21 |
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Single by Luther Vandross | |
from the album Songs | |
Released | 1994 |
Genre | R&B |
Label | Epic |
Songwriter(s) | Stephen Stills |
American singer Luther Vandross released a cover of the song on his 1994 album Songs. It peaked in the top 30 on the Billboard Hot R&B Singles, 33 on the Billboard Hot Adult Contemporary Tracks; and earned Vandross a 1995 Grammy nomination for Best Male Pop Vocal Performance.[26]
M.R. Martinez from Cash Box described "Love the One You’re With" as "an optimistic celebration of love and music as Vandross is backed by an all-star choir that includes Lisa Fischer, Tawatha Gee, Jim Gilstrap and others."[27] Pan-European magazine Music & Media commented, "Hailed the King of silky ballads, Luther also knows how to speed it up. In a New Orleans way, and challenged by a gospel group, this Stephen Stills cover shows him at his toughest."[28]
Chart (1994–1995) | Peak position |
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Australia (ARIA)[29] | 56 |
Canada Top Singles (RPM)[30] | 40 |
Scotland (OCC)[31] | 41 |
UK Singles (OCC)[32] | 31 |
US Billboard Hot 100[33] | 95 |
In 2012, the song was featured in Ridley Scott's sci-fi movie Prometheus. Idris Elba sings a short phrase from the song after describing a possibly fictional account of how his squeezebox used to belong to Stills.[35]
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